How amazing is Macy?

Like lots of children, Macy has nystagmus as well as more serious health problems. Here’s her story, as told by her Mum …

In January 2016, Macy our baby girl suffered a sudden out of hospital cardiac arrest at 3 months old. After being resuscitated twice, once by paramedics at home and again at Wigan hospital, she was transferred to Alder Hey Children’s Hospital in Liverpool. The following hours/days/weeks are mostly a blur. 

Macy was so poorly, she spent time in isolation in PICU, with one to one nursing care. At the worst time in our lives those nurses/consultants were exceptional. She then spent weeks on the cardiac ward, which was probably harder than PICU as she was conscious and in pain and it was just unbearable. She was subsequently diagnosed with Dilated Cardiomyopathy, Cone-Rod Dystrophy and Nystagmus.

Macy is still seen regularly at Alder Hey by a cardiologist, neurologist, ophthalmologist…the list goes on.

After genetics testing, Macy has since been diagnosed with an ‘ultra rare’ disease called ALSTOM Syndrome, which is an inherited autosomal recessive syndrome characterised by the onset of obesity in childhood or adolescence, Type 2 diabetes, often with severe insulin resistance, dyslipidemia, hypertension and severe multi-organ fibrosis involving the liver, kidney and heart. Alström syndrome is also characterised by a progressive loss of vision (Cone-Rod Dystrophy) and hearing, a form of heart disease that weakens the heart muscle (dilated cardiomyopathy). This disorder can also cause serious or life-threatening medical problems involving the liver, kidneys, bladder, and lungs.

Nystagmus is just one of many of Macy’s symptoms, but she doesn’t let any of them stop her!

How amazing is Michael?

A nystagmus Dad writes:

Michael is 19. In 1999 he was diagnosed with congenital idiopathic nystagmus at around 3 months of age. We immediately did an internet search to find out what nystagmus was. I couldn’t even spell it properly, but within a short time we found Nystagmus Network. This turned out to be a huge benefit to us. We were put in touch with people with first hand knowledge of the condition. I’ve still got my notes from my initial conversations with Katy and Claire and the messages we received from John, Sue, Vivien and all the team after becoming members were most reassuring. We attended Open Days and our understanding grew. In terms of raising awareness and helping us come to terms with it, Nystagmus Network really hit the mark.

It was through the charity that we learned of Professor Irene Gottlobb and her team at Leicester Royal Infirmary. We secured a referral and Michael had countless eye recordings with Rebecca McLean, tests, clinical visits and an operation to partially correct his null point.

As Michael grew up we noticed how little his condition seemed to affect him. He was always a good athlete, playing junior football from age 5, was in the Cubs and Scouts. He swam competitively. Nystagmus didn’t seem to hamper him. However, looking back, this was masked by his ability to adapt. He struggled with fast moving ball games like cricket and badminton and the concentration required when reading. Doing his school work greatly fatigued him and studying still does. All through his school years he received terrific support from his SENCo, who became a real support for his Mum and me. We cannot thank Marie enough for her support for Michael during his time at junior and senior school.

We were all so proud of Michael when he achieved stellar results for his GCSEs and then his A-levels. In 2017 he was accepted by St. John’s College, Oxford where he is just finishing the first year of his Physics degree. He thoroughly enjoys being at Oxford, plays football for the college and fully participates in all the ‘liquid’ social events intrinsic to college life.

Michael’s success is due in no small part to the dedication and hard work he puts in, which takes a lot of effort due to his nystagmus. He has natural ability and great focus (no pun intended) and this has enabled him to overcome his disadvantages. The extra time during exams was essential to him at school and now at Oxford. He has been lucky. His condition could have been far more severe, but he has worked within his limitations to achieve the best he can. Long may it continue.

He passed his driving test in 2017 – which was the one thing we always wondered about. He has to be careful driving at night and he will never be a racing driver, but as long as he can get from A to B safely, to enable him to get on with his life, that’s all we can ask for.

I hope others may find some inspiration in Michael’s story. He has had to accommodate a severe disadvantage, but, essentially, it hasn’t held him back. He has exceeded all our expectations. The measure of that is not a place at university, but that he has simply got on with it and done his best.

How amazing is Chris?

If you ever visit our Facebook page you will know Chris. She’s very knowledgeable about nystagmus – and sight impairment generally and so generous to everyone with her time and support.

Here’s her amazing nystagmus story:

Back in 1973, living at home with my parents, I read in our local paper about a new national organisation for people with partial sight. The founder of the Partially Sighted Society was keen to support parents of visually impaired children. A new local group was looking for members. I just had to do it.

My parents didn’t really want me to join: they wanted me to mix with sighted people after all my days at schools for the partially sighted. But, I was over 21 so I went along. There were a couple of people my age, but, later, a new chap joined. He’d come to work at the local teacher training college. He fitted in well. He had his own home. The rest of us lived with our parents still.

As time went on, we worked at his house setting up everything needed to run the group. Then along came community radio. Our local station set up a community programme, aired every weekday evening. It was 1976, that long hot summer. Mike and I got married towards in the July. My now husband had come to work with trainee teachers as an audio technician. He knew about radio station technology, he knew how to plan lessons so, in effect, he knew how to create radio programmes! We did our first live radio programme together with a few friends.

Over the years I’ve done the occasional interview for local radio as part of the PSSMy real mentor on visual impairment, however, then and now, is BBC Radio 4’s “In Touch” programme and their chief broadcaster since the 1970s, BBC Disability Affairs Correspondent, Peter White. At first I sent in letters, then later emails. My letters were read out, or we read them out down the phone. I was contributing often enough to get myself known. The producer, Cheryl Gabriel, credits me with being in her first programme in the 1990s.

My biggest memory, however, was in the mid-1990s: the internet was everywhere. In Touch had produced an annual handbook in print and other formats for some years and small subject-related guides. At this point I was a parent as well as a volunteer with a, by then, national organisation for parents with disabilities. The In Touch book had a chapter on parenting and was re-written that year. I offered to proof read it, then I read the whole manuscript, because it was there. I was invited to launch the book at that year’s “Sight Village” in Birmingham. 

In 2000 our 18 year old sighted daughter got a place on a music production course at the local college. She did a B Tech and then her BA. She wanted to be an audio technician, like her Dad, but she knew Dad wouldn’t be giving up his job till retirement! The peak of the course in the first year was ‘live’ students’ radio on the campus. Hazel was asked if she’d like 6 weeks’ work experience. Today she’s still there as manager! 

Proof that one’s daughter has faith in you: over the years I’ve taken in my CDs for World Music programmes. I have a collection of Chinese traditional and folk music. When possible, I’ve used the weekly community show to talk about nystagmus around Nystagmus Awareness Day. I’ve also been interviewed by young people with very complex needs who produce a weekly music show aired on the internet. Hazel was taught to BBC standards, so too are the students she now teaches.

Thanks to Mike’s business (he specialised in classical music, choral and orchestral work as well speech recordings) I’ve been drafted in as a female voice on local radio adverts. The scariest thing ever was wandering into a local supermarket and hearing my own voice scream with frustration (an advert for a local electrical shop about a broken TV at Christmas), or singing softly with our daughter a nursery rhyme to open a recording of a piece of history in a series for schools.

And “In Touch? I was invited to their 40th anniversary and then their 50th. It was a two programme recording and one guest was the actor, Ryan Kelly, who has a role in a long running radio ‘soap’. I was able to ask him a question on air. Since last December, I’ve made 3 more appearances on “In Touch”, two with Mike. I still can’t believe it! I also did one TV programme. Someone on the internet casually asked for ideas for a show about disability. Mike and I are passionate about cooking products and techniques, as visually impaired people. I stayed up late, idly typing lots of ideas and the whole lot was accepted without edit and filmed on a hot spring day in my kitchen. Fun, but hard work. Mike stayed at home to help. I found it hard to know how long to hold a shot before the camera stopped rolling. I’ve not been tempted again.

Had I ever wanted to go into broadcasting? No! With very poor GCEs in maths, English and science, I wasn’t anywhere near ‘A’ level standard. Any job was hard to find in the 1970s, when medicals had to be passed. I was a woman with an obvious sight impairment. I joined my dad on the railway as an audio typist (a common job for the VI man or woman then).

Before I met my husband, he’d started his own recording studio business from home. Despite poor sight, not nystagmus, he was in demand by staff and students to produce LPs of choral music. This was my path while bringing up our daughter and continued until very recently when we decided it was time to retire. Mbroadcasting and voluntary work has fitted round the business. Amazing, indeed. The broadcasting couldn’t have happened without my husband of nearly 42 years and our lovely daughter’s confidence in us both.

How amazing is Dave?

Here’s Dave’s nystagmus success story, in his own words.

I have congenital nystagmus. The main limitation I have experienced is not being able to drive. However, at the age of 68, I can reflect on what I have been able to achieve in my life and feel very happy. I have been happily married for 45 years, have 2 grown up children and 2 grandchildren.

I spent most of my career in Personnel Management (HR) and retired as Head of Department in a Surrey Local Authority. Academically, I was a Fellow of the Institute of Personnel and Development and also gained a Masters Degree at Brunel University.

In my retirement, I run a walking group, am a bereavement counsellor and have set up and run The Wonderyears, the UK’s oldest seniors rock chorus and band. The group has been filmed by national TV and reached the quarter finals of Britain’s Got Talent!

I hope this can be an encouragement to others, particularly parents of young children who have nystagmus, to illustrate that whilst having the condition can limit some activities (such as driving) life can still be great fun and very rewarding.

How amazing is Denni-Leigh?

A Mum’s story:

Denni-Leigh was born weighing 5.15lbs on a sunny June morning. She was a perfectly beautiful newborn baby. Only at about 4 weeks old the health visitor noticed that something was wrong with her eyes.

We were told that Denni-Leigh had congenital nystagmus, astigmatism and a squint and was extremely long-sighted. Being such a young mum and not understanding anything that they were saying to me, I was very confused and very shocked. As we went on going to more and more appointments we were told that Denni-Leigh would not be able to live a normal life and do the things other children do, like ride a bike, learn to read, go to mainstream school.

But my beautiful little girl just sat there smiling and that gave me the strength and the determination to make sure she wasn’t treated any different. So she started mainstream school, a little bit behind everybody else, but she was never put off by anything. She learnt to ride a bike at the age of 7. Then came the decision to send her to mainstream secondary school. I’m so glad I did. She has gone from strength to strength and has proved everybody wrong and is now sitting her GCSEs. One day she would like to be a lawyer and change the way people think about people with visual impairments.

She is registered as visually impaired, but that has not put her off doing anything if she puts her mind to it. She will get there in the end. If anyone asks her about her eyes, then she proudly says, it’s just me, I have wobbly eyes. She is the most amazing, kindest and most caring big sister to her 5 little sisters. I am so proud of the beautiful young woman my daughter has become and it’s an honour to be her Mum.

How amazing is James?

Nystagmus Dad, Robin, writes:

My 9 year old son, James, has OC Albinism and Nystagmus, but he and I started learning the guitar together about 3 years ago ( he obviously struggled to see the music and the strings on the guitar, but, when blown up, he can read the score and any annotation written on it).

We’ve been taking the Trinity exams together and in the Spring we both passed Grade 3, which he was very pleased about!

We’re still learning together, so hopefully that’s not the end of the story. Perhaps he could play a couple of tunes at the next Open Day!

Note from ed: James has a spot booked at Open Day 2018!

How amazing is Ella?

Ella’s Mum tells us about her 16 year old daughter, Ella, who has nystagmus and optic nerve hypoplasia. She has also had to endure major surgery to straighten her spine, having discovered she was suffering from scoliosis.

“Ella is a singer/songwriter and at the end of last year won Leeds City Council Breeze has Talent, playing one of her original songs. One of her prizes was to sing at the Leeds Christmas Lights switch on in front of thousands of people. Ella has never let her visual impairment be a barrier for anything she has wanted to achieve. She is currently studying hard for her GCSEs and then hopes to go to Music College. She has also recently been in the recording studio and hopes to release her debut EP of her own songs in the not so distant future. The summer is going to be a very busy time for her, playing lots of local music festivals. We are naturally extremely proud of everything she has achieved and know that she will continue to make us proud in the future.”

Watch Ella play here.

How amazing is Vicki?

Here’s Vicki’s nystagmus success story …

I have congenital nystagmus and ocular albinism and want to help to encourage other people to reach their potential.

I graduated from Durham university with a degree in Maths and Physics. During the first couple of years of my degree, I refused the extra help I deserved due to my eye problem, because I wanted to fit in. I had extra time for my a levels and GCSEs but some comments from other pupils made me feel embarrassed. By the third year I realised that I was doing myself an injustice and some good friends persuaded me to take the extra time. Although I then got very good marks in third year I was disappointed with my overall degree grade. I hope other people learn from this – take the help you need.

After university I got a job in accountancy and studied for my ACA. I got extra time and progressed through my exams right to the last stage. I failed the last exam, which was a case study and involved a lot of reading and writing – with the extra time my exam was over 4 hours long, which was a long time to concentrate.

I quit my job and went travelling around the world on my own for 18 months. I  visited 12 countries and did a mixture of paid work, volunteer work, tours and independent travelling. I absolutely loved it and it taught me that I could do anything I put my mind to – despite my wobbly eyes. I worked behind a bar (people struggled getting my attention, but there wasn’t another pub for 50 miles so they were persistent!), I worked on a wildlife sanctuary with lions and cheetahs and baboons, I built houses for poor people, learnt Spanish, learnt to scuba dive. … the list goes on.

I came back full of confidence in my abilities and decided to retake my case study exam. I passed this time and qualified as a chartered accountant. I now work for one of the largest accountancy firms in the world in a job I love.

It’s been a bumpy ride of learning from my mistakes, but I now realise that my eye problem will only hold me back if I let it.

How amazing is Ben?

Ben’s Mum tells us:

“I am incredibly proud of my son, Ben who is 10 and has nystagmus. He plays for the under 10s Winslow Tigers football team. Recently he scored a hat trick and received the Man of the Match Trophy. He has to work twice as hard as his friends, as he hasn’t quite mastered contact lenses and doesn’t want to wear sports goggles.
We never imagined he would ever experience being part of a sports team, but not only is he a great team player, he also has great skill.”